How to start anal practice

Anal sex can be an intimate and pleasurable experience, but it’s important to remember that everyone is different and has their own individual preferences. If you’re interested in trying anal sex, here are some tips to make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable:

Open communication

First of all, it’s essential to talk to your partner about your intentions, desires, and boundaries. Have an honest conversation about the subject to ensure that you’re both comfortable and willing to experiment, and how you’ll proceed.

Know your body

Before engaging in anal sex, it’s important to explore your own body and familiarize yourself with the area. Start with anal masturbation, using a suitable lubricant (such as Blackhole Lube , for example) to help relax your muscles and increase comfort. This will also allow you to discover what types of stimulation and pressure work best for you.

Lubrication

Lubrication is essential to making anal sex a smooth and comfortable experience. The anal area does not naturally lubricate like the vagina, so it is important to use plenty of water-based or silicone-based lubricant. Reapply it regularly during sexual activity to maintain adequate lubrication. We recommend Blackhole Lube , but you can check out all the options available in the anal lubricants or silicone-based lubricants section .

Get ready

Before anal intercourse, it is important to prepare the anus to help relax the muscles. You can start by gently caressing and making circular movements around the anus, using your fingers or an appropriately sized sex toy. Progress gradually and respect your own pace. Non-vibrating or vibrating butt plugs are great tools for this, as they allow you to explore carefully, with sizes that are comfortable for beginners and allow you to realise that this is a place that can really give you pleasure and not just a neutral sensation when there is no discomfort. It can also be very beneficial to have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm during foreplay, before anal activity. This not only makes you more aroused and excited about the anal sensation, but also significantly relaxes all the muscles in the area, making any anal penetration even easier.

Comfortable positions

Finding the right position can make a big difference to your anal sex experience. Positions where you can control the pace and depth, such as lying on your side or on top, can help increase comfort and relax your muscles.

Respect your limits

It is essential to respect your own limits and those of your partner. If at any time you feel discomfort or intense pain, stop immediately. Do not force yourself to continue if you are not feeling well. Anal sex should be consensual and pleasurable for both parties involved, even if there is some discomfort at first, this should never be intense pain and only means that you will have to take the process more slowly and with more care and preparation.

Hygiene

Proper hygiene is important when practicing anal sex. Make sure your anus is clean before sexual activity by gently washing it with warm water and mild soap, or using a special disinfectant that respects the pH of the skin in this area. It is also recommended to empty your bowels a few hours before intercourse to avoid discomfort or concerns about residue, and you can use an anal douche , which is very easy to use.

Notice:

Remember that it is essential to use condoms , even during anal sex, to protect against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and to prevent contamination of other parts of the body. Never use the same condom to later have vaginal sex. Sanitize everything that came into contact with the anus first, before using it on any other part of the body.

Conclusion

In short, anal sex requires communication, consent, and care. With some patience, foreplay, proper lubrication, and a gradual approach, you and your partner can discover a new level of intimacy and intense pleasure. Remember, everyone is different, so the most important thing is to explore your own preferences and limits to have a safe and enjoyable experience.